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Bobby Lime's avatar

I'm glad you mentioned those of us who are kept out of church by chronic illness. I'm happy that my church's services are live streamed on Facebook. Still, the matter of embodiment can't be sloughed off. Really, it's close to meaningless to me to watch and listen to the congregation sing hymns, recite a Creed, and take communion. I do know that the sermon will begin at about the half hour mark.

I'm seventy - three now. I'm convinced I was a Christian before I was four. I was severely disabled at age seven. I don't think I would be overestimating things to surmise that I have been to church less than two hundred times in my life.

My lot is in fact typical of the circumstances of disabled Christians in the United States. The book, "Why, O God? Suffering and Disability in the Bible and the Church," edited by Roy Zuck, is nearly fifteen years old, but my hunch is that with the exception of streamed services, the inadequacies of which you and I have noted, almost nothing has changed.

The non disabled need to understand this about the disabled: we are not only the most isolated people in any population, we are the most socially avoidant. That means that it is torture for us to contact people and ask for things which should be minimal for Christians, such as a ride to and from services. I had lived in my current apartment for almost five years before I contacted the church which I have been a member of since 2014.

You might think that one of the things which defeats us is embarrassment about our medical crucibles, and you would be right. But another huge obstacle, at least as far as churches in the United States are concerned, is the cult of individualism/self sufficiency/inhospitality which is so American and so unChristian, yet which thrives in the American church. Another is the suburbanization and exurbanization of life in the United States since World War II. We are a nation built for the automobile, and because of it, not only are our urban areas charmless, but everyone lives so far from everyone else.

The disabled, far from being oblivious to the realities of life for the healthy, are extremely aware of them. You all are just so busy, busy, busy, aren't you? And we know it. Here I may as well mention a truly ugly phenomenon which I alluded to in the previous paragraph and which, thanks be to God, indeed, my church is free of, but which is common in the American church: many Christians really are Americans first, Christians second, if not lower in rank, and America is a land which is particularly contemptuous of the disabled. Americans may know better, but many cannot shake the feeling that we who are disabled are with obvious exceptions a bunch of slackers, somehow. The situation becomes much worse if one is unfortunate to have a psychopath or two in the extended family, as I do. I won't go into details, but if it weren't for the genuine godliness of my church, my rich - by - marriage first cousin's going behind my back to wage a successful war of defamation against me directed at an aged, widowed, childless aunt to persuade her to disinherit me would have forced me to commit suicide years ago.

I'm remarkably blessed in having the fellowship I have. Their faithful monthly payments to an ABLE Account for me for the last decade have enabled me to go on living. Just as prisoners understand other prisoners in a way non prisoners never can, the disabled understand the disabled, and my awareness of how close I came to having my psychopathic cousin's war against me succeed causes me great sadness when I consider that my highly restricted and deeply vulnerable life is microcosmic of the circumstances which most disabled Christians must live with in the United States.

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Trip Kimball's avatar

Good review, Travis! It reminds me & reinforces the exhortation I read in Hebrews recently–

“And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.”

‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭10‬:‭24‬-‭25‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

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